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The Redeemed Marriage PodcastEpisode 272

What If I’m Not Attracted to My Spouse Anymore?

What happens when you love your spouse, you’re committed to your marriage, but you just don’t feel that attraction anymore? Maybe you’ve been hurt by betrayal. Maybe you’ve slowly drifted apart over the years. Or maybe life has just changed, and the feelings you once had seem to be gone.

By Rusty & Heather Bryant33 min listen

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In this episode, we’re talking about something that a lot of couples struggle with but don’t always want to admit. What do you do when the spark is gone? Can those feelings actually come back?

We talk about why love is so much more than a feeling and how spiritual, emotional, and physical intimacy all work together in a healthy marriage. We also share why rebuilding attraction doesn’t usually start in the bedroom. It starts with the heart.

If you’re in a season where you feel disconnected from your spouse, we want to encourage you. Just because you don’t feel the way you once did doesn’t mean those feelings can’t return. There is hope, but rebuilding that connection takes time, intentionality, and a willingness to love even when the feelings aren’t there.

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